If you tend to be a controller, it doesn't mean you're a bad person...but...it wears you out trying to play God. Controllers are living in fear... not faith. "I Surrender to the loving control of the almighty God! I live to please Him. I live to bring glory to His name. I'm choosing to live for his "Well Done"!
Never place your faith in your limited ability to control people and outcomes! Let God be God! Without this kind of faith, it's impossible to please God! Place your faith and trust in God alone! Give it up...hand over control to Him!
God is calling us to finish what we started, to finish what He has started in us. The gravitational pull is towards what’s easy...