There is a life principle here: spiritual growth happens best in community. Long-ranger Christianity may be common, but it is not biblical... and it's not best! God designed us to grow together.
If you tend to be a controller, it doesn't mean you're a bad person...but...it wears you out trying to play God. Controllers are living...
Jesus followers live generously. They give spontaneously, strategically, and sacrificially. Step up and into radical generosity through God’s church.